Many men enjoy a little gender role reversal and like being pursued by women. Scorpio men are certainly no exception to this. There are certain things that women should remember when they try to win over such a man.
Act Confident, not Helpless
Many women try to be helpless and even try to dumb themselves down to stoke a man's ego and make him feel in charge. Many Scorpio men, as well as many men of other signs, strongly dislike this approach. Instead, they would like women to act capable and confident, intelligent and sure of themselves. Men who like being pursued are attracted to strength.
Take Charge
Nothing impresses a guy who enjoys being pursued like a woman who is willing to take charge. Ask him out, be the first one to initiate hand-holding and kissing. Don't wait for him to hold open the door -- in fact, if she gets to the door first, she should hold it open for him.
Ignore Shyness
Some guys may be nervous and unresponsive when women try out these tactics. This does not mean that they are not working! In general, when a shy man agrees to spend an extended period of time alone with a woman, he's interested, but he may not feel ready to share his feelings.
Channel Mars
Mars is the planet named for the God of War in the Roman religious system. Women should channel Mars by tuning into their inner tomboy and get ready to be tough. This could means participating in an informal game of sports with him and his friends, or playing a violent video game, or watching (and enjoying) a violent movie or TV show, or it could mean arm wrestling together, alone. Most men -- Scorpios included -- who like to be pursued by women like women who are strong physically and mentally.
Achieve Harmony With Scopio Men
Always be sensitive and caring. Never run roughshod over anyone's feelings or desires. Try to be helpful, supportive and sympathetic. Don't wait forever for the planets to align -- align your minds and your hearts first!
To summarize, many men, including Scorpios, enjoy a slightly different kind of approach from women. If a woman desires to win the heart of such a man, she needs to adopt her tactics accordingly. However, just because many Scorpios enjoy being pursued does not mean they all do -- try not to over generalize. And no woman should ever completely alter her personality to win the heart of a man. The right man will love a woman for who she is, not who she tries to be.
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