Those born under Cancer can suffer from crabbiness and pessimism. This is their dark side. Recognizing and confronting this part of the Cancer personality is essential.
Crabbiness, worry, and pessimism can be difficult to manage Cancer personality characteristics. This can be the dark side of a Cancer's personality, but it is are not limited to just Cancer. People born under signs other than Cancer who have these types of personality characteristics could make use of this advice.
Cancer Personality
The Cancer personality can be cynical, pessimistic, worrying, crabby, grumpy, and ill at ease. Like the Taurus, many born under Cancer will find themselves in positions where their "negative" personality traits will be rewarded. They can be accountants, lawyers, investigators, soldiers, prison wardens, or other professions that involve a certain degree of negative thinking.
The Cancer Man
The Cancer man may enjoy competition, but he is not necessarily as determined to win as the Leo. For the Caner man, the fun is not in winning, but in humiliating the opponent. The Cancer man can be a bully, a practical joker, or a fierce protector. His reliance on negative thinking may lead him to believe that approaching women will be futile, so the Cancer man is sometimes prone to shyness around the opposite sex.
The Cancer Woman
Many Cancer females fight like Cancer males, but others fight using the weapons of words. Some Cancer females are catty, enjoying gossip and rumors. They have long memories and do not forgive and forget easily. They enjoy getting respect, but will only give it to others if they deem them worthy of it.
Cancer Love
Cancer's traditional crabbiness can complicate romance. Someone with a fiery temper, like an Aries, or easily hurt feelings, like a Pisces, may initially clash with a Cancer, though once they understand that they should not take things too personally, the relationship can begin to work. The consideration of others and using kind language can be an effort for a Cancer, but it is an effort that they are willing to make if they know it means a lot to someone that they love.
The Cancer traits of pessimism can lead them in certain directions in which negative thinking is helpful, but it should not control the Cancer's entire worldview and lead to a dreary outlook on life. The Cancer's penchant for crabby behavior can complicate a romance, but if they are determined to make it work, they can learn to be kinder and more loving.
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THEY ARE LIARS AND WILL TELL U ANYTHING U WANT TO HEAR
May 2, 2009 7:02 PM
Guest :
is it really true that"they are liars and will say whateer you wanna
hear?"
Jun 15, 2009 10:31 AM
Guest :
A cancer man is always a gentleman, until the woman he is with stops being
a lady.
Jul 7, 2009 7:43 PM
Guest :
I'm a cancer male lover and I never cheated or lied in the realms of love
and romance even though I'm moody and got a hot-temper I really do love my
girlfriend with all honesty...I love myself too...!
Jul 9, 2009 7:53 AM
Guest :
omg! i found out what all of our politicians are! ;D
Jul 11, 2009 8:12 AM
Guest :
cancer men are great emotional manipulators! Lies! Sneaky!
Aug 1, 2009 2:25 AM
Guest :
im in love with a cancer man... hes very quiet, smart, handsome, rude when
talking to other girls(but hes very nice when i talk to him), Shy, and
playful like a child hehehe... after school the generously asks me if he i
will allow him to carry my heavy bag.. he like every thing i do... when
someone fights me hes always there to save me like hes my night in shining
armor! i love him so much he said he LOVEs me but i wonder if he means it?
i caught him flirting with my best friend! >:(
Aug 5, 2009 10:19 AM
Guest :
I agree, in my experience with Cancer men, they just tell you want you want
to hear to get what they want out of you. Is there an honest Cancer out
there?
Aug 5, 2009 10:19 AM
Guest :
I agree, in my experience with Cancer men, they just tell you want you want
to hear to get what they want out of you. Is there an honest Cancer out
there?
Aug 5, 2009 10:20 AM
Guest :
I agree, in my experience with Cancer men, they just tell you want you want
to hear to get what they want out of you. Is there an honest Cancer out
there?
Aug 21, 2009 11:16 PM
Guest :
just broke up w/one. he lied about everything, cheated, money hungry,
needy... I could go on and on!!!
Aug 24, 2009 5:48 AM
Guest :
they are not liars,they just want to make you happy.
Aug 27, 2009 2:17 AM
Guest :
honestly it's not that they are liars they're just manipulative they do
things secretly sometimes... for example when it comes to love if you'll
hurt them they'll try to fine someone special to save them from tears but
they still love you and cared for you...that's their personality so better
never hurt them...
Feb 8, 2009
